hi. im 21 years old and still a virgin and have found myself thinking about having sex so much lately. i know for sure that ill never have a boyfriend to lose it to so that is completely out of the question. but i have met a few guys who seem interested and are willing to help me out in this situation. im not naive, i know that they just want one thing and so do i, so that isn the problem. the question i have is - will the pain decrease every time after my first time? sorry for how long this is :D
To moonlite: first thanks for replying. I just cant and dont see myself as the "couple" type. Also i am more of a loner and dont get out much so there arent my opportunities to meet people. But i am completely sure (for right now) that i dont want the "formal" or "normal" type of relationship. I dont wanna sound like a ho but for right now i just want someone to lose my virginity to. Damn the "right time" and "you'll know" stuff. Thanks again.
hearing what you said made me kinda sad and concern. im sure even if you are more of a loner, there will be someone that can love you for the way you are. so don't sell yourself short! as for your question, yes, it does get less painful as you do it mroe and more. but of course.. you have to keep yourself well lubricated. but for real! i don't agree on losing something so special as your virginity to just anyone.
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