Top mistakes men make when searching for a Russian woman
Rule #1. Never send money to a women who says she can get a visa. Of the hundreds of men that I have known who have done this, NOT ONE Russian woman has ever gotten a Visa or actually traveled to the US to meet the man who sent money. Worst sites: Yahoo! Personals, Match.com, Friend Finder. These sites seem to attract the most amount of scammers, but no matter where you meet Russian women, never ever send them money. If you completely ignore my advice, then use your credit card to get the airline ticket. Every airline and travel agency accepts credit cards. This way, she cannot just take your money. Women who are scamming you will object to this, a MAJOR Warning sign. Even if you have met the woman in person, never send money to her for airline tickets. DON'T DO IT!
Rule #2. Never use an agency that uses affiliates. This is where most of the agency scams take place. For more information please read Warning About Affiliates. Do not believe them when they tell you these affiliates are monitored. They ARE NOT!
Rule #3. Do not travel to meet one single woman. NEVER EVER DO THIS. Less than 3% of men that travel to meet one women get married. If you are going to spend all that money to travel there, make sure you have the maximum number of options. Guys who attend group tours have about an 80% success rate. BIG, BIG difference.
If you still do not plan on going on a group trip, at least have 10 to 20 ladies lined up before you go. This will greatly increase your chances for success on the trip. Never go to meet one woman. Doing this is foolish.
Here is a new scam being done by some agencies: they tell men to only go to meet one women, that way she will feel special. Then when it does not work out, the girl tells the man to go to the agency where they charge big bucks for each introduction. The women actually work for the agency and are paid to do this. This is called bait and switch. When you go to meet one women and it does not work out, it is very hard to get something else going in just a few days. Emailing other women just takes to long, and you may have to wait up to a week for an answer back. This is not a real option if you are on a 10 day trip and have already wasted 5 days with some one else. Again, make sure you have at least 10 women you plan on meeting before you even get there.
Rule #4. Keep focused. So many men come with good intentions and a set of priorities: 25 to 30 years old, marriage minded, family orientated, and so on. Then they meet a super hot 18-year-old girl and all the priorities go out the window. They totally forget why they came to Russia for a wife. At the end of the trip, they had a great time but they leave alone. Keep focused; remember why you came to Russia.
Rule #5. Ignoring the signs: Most woman that you meet will be sincere, but there are a few that are not. Those who are not sincere usually are very aggressive. There are many warning signs. If she does not hold your hand in public or show signs of affection, it might be a bad sign. A woman who really like you will give you plenty affection. If the woman says she does not have any time to meet with you and says she is very busy, it is also a bad sign. If a woman really likes you she will make time for you. If she asks you to take her shopping, it is a huge warning sign of a scam. No sincere women would ever suggest taking her shopping after only few dates. Asking for money is also an obvious problem. If a woman ever asks for money or gives you a hard luck story, run like the wind. Many men ignore these signs because the girl is so hot and they do not want to lose her. Don't forget there are plenty of beautiful women available, just move on to the next if you see the warning signs. Don’t be a fool and try to rationalize her misbehavior.
Positive signs:
There are many positive signs to look for: Want to spend all her free time with you. Introduces you to her family. Invites you over for dinner. Makes sure you do not waist money on things. If she is local and you are unsure of the cost of something, a good woman will make sure you do not get over charged for things in her country. Buys you little gifts. Calls to make sure you got home OK.
Rule #6. Trying to buy love: Do not try and impress women by buying them things and spending a lot of money on them. Once you start this you will never know if she likes you or just the money you have. Keep gifts simple and small. Flowers are always good.
Rule #7. Falling in love with the first girl. Many men fall in love with the first woman they meet. They are just not use to young beautiful women showing such interest in them. They then do not meet any other women at the socials. They also skip the rest of the events and devote all their time to that one woman. Then, for whatever reason, the relationship does not work out and they have not met any other women. 90% of men will end up with there number two choice, realizing she really should have been there number one choice.
Rule #8. Picking the wrong service. Avoid using local agencies, as these local agencies seem to have the highest amount of scams. These agencies have a low amount of clients, and therefore have to try and make as much money as they can form the few clients they do get. They over charge for apartments, hotels, and all other services. Many also work scams with the local girls, getting clients to send money for gifts then dividing it amongst the women. It is always best to work with well established companies that have lots of testimonials, referrals, and so forth. An agency should be able to give you phone numbers of at least 10 past clients they have had in the last few months. If they can not give you referrals, then stay away from their service. Finally, ever use a service that does not have their phone number on the web site.
Rule #9. Drinking. Don't get drunk on a date; keep the drinking to a minimum. The last thing a Russian woman wants to meet is another alcoholic or drunk. Alcoholism is a huge problem in Russia and the Ukraine. Most women in Russian and the Ukraine, by the times they are 21, have met enough of alcoholics. If they see you getting drunk, they might just label you as another alcoholic.
Rule #10. Never going. This is the number one mistake men make. Less than 1% of the men that write women will ever get on a plane and go. Women get very tired of writing men that never come. A good friend of mine corresponded with a women who received over 500 letters. Out of the hundreds of men that wrote her, he was the only one that ever came over. It did not matter how handsome, rich or charming the other men were because they never took the essential step and closed the deal. They have now been married for over 9 years. Corresponding is fine to start getting to know someone, but not if you never plan to meet. Procrastination can cost you. While you delay, someone else may travel and close the deal with the women that could have been your soul mate. Stop making excuses and just go!
Top ten mistakes men make when looking for a Russian women
Rule #1. Sending money to a women who says she can get a visa. From hundreds of men that I have known to do this. NOT ONE Russian women has ever got a visa or actually ever traveled to the US to meet that man who sent money. Worse sites: yahoo personals, match.com, friend finder. These sites seem to attract the most amount of scammers. But no matter where you meet Russian women, Never ever send money. If you completely ignore my advice, then use your credit card to get the airline ticket. Every airline and travel agency accepts credit card. This way she cannot just take your money. Most women when you suggest this will abject to this, this is the BIG Warning sign that she is going to scam you. Even if you have met the women never ever send money to her for airline tickets. DON'T DO IT!
Rule #2 Never use agency that use affiliates. This is where all the agency scam take place. For more info please read Warning About Affiliates.
Do not believe when they tell you the monitor these agencies. They DO NOT!
Rule #3 Traveling to meet one single women. NEVER EVER DO THIS. Less the 3% of men that travel to meet one women get married. If you are going to spend all that money to go over make sure you have the maximum number of options. Guys who attend tour groups have about an 80% success rate. BIG BIG difference.
So if you still do not plan on going on group trip at least have 10 to 20 ladies lined up before you go. This will greatly increase your chances for successes of the trip. Never Ever go to meet one woman. Doing this is foolish.
New SCAM by some Agencies, they tell men to only go to meet one women, that way she will feel special. Then it does not work out and the girl tells the men to go to the agency where they charge big Bucks per introduction. The women actually works for the agency and are paid to do this. This is called bait switch. When you go to meet one women and it does not work out it is very very hard to get soothing else going in just a few days. Emailing other women just takes to long, you may have to wait up to a week to an answer back. So this is not a real option if you are on a 10 day trip and you already wasted 5 days with some one else. So again make sure you have at least 10 women you are planling on meeting before you arrive.
Rule #4 Keeping focused: So many men come with good intentions with a set of priorities: 25 to 30 years old. Marriage minded, family orientated and so on. Then they meet a super hot 18-year-old girl and all the priorities go out the window. They total forget why they came to Russia for a wife. At the end of the trip they had a great time but they leave along. Keep focused; remember why you came to Russia.
Rule #5 Ignoring the signs: Most women that you meet will be sincere, but there are a few that are not. Those who are not sincere usually are very aggressive. There are many warning signs. If she does not hold your hand in public. No affection. A women who really likes you will give you plenty affections. If the women says she does not have any time to meet with you, says she is very busy. If a women really likes you she will make time for you. Takes you shopping. Big warning here. No sincere women would ever suggest taking her shopping after only few dates. Asking for money. If a women every ask for money or gives you hard luck story run like the wind. Many men ignore these sign because the girl is so hot and they do not want to lose her, there are plenty of hot women, just move on to the next if you see the warning signs. Don’t be a fool and try and rationalize her miss behavior
Positive signs:
There are many positive signs to look for: Want to spend all her free time with you. Introduces you to her family. Invites you over for dinner. Makes sure you do not waist money on things. She is local and you are unsure of cost of something, a good women will make sure you do not get over charge for things in her country. Buys you little gifts. Calls to make sure you got home OK.
Rule #6 Trying to buy love:
Do not try and impress women buy buying them things and spending lot of money on them. Once you start this you will never know if she likes you or just the money you have. Keep gifts simple and small. Flowers are always good.
Rule #7 Falling in love with the first girl: many men fall in love with the first women they meet. They are just not use to young beautiful women showing such interest in them. They then do not meet any other women at the socials. They then skip the rest of the events and devote all their time to one woman. Then for whatever reason the relationship does not work out and they have no backups. 90% of men will end up with there number two choice, realizing she really should have been there number one choice.
Rule #8 Picking the wrong service: Avoid using local agencies, these local agencies seem to have the highest amount of scams. These agencies have little amount of clients, because of this they have to try and make as much money as they can form the few client they do get. They over charge for apartments, hotels and all other services. Many also work scams with girls, getting clients to send money for gifts then splitting with the women. So it is always best to work with well established companies that have lots of testimonials, referrals and so forth. An agency should be able to give you phone numbers at least 10 past client they have had in the last few months. If they can not give you referrals then stay away from these service. Never use a service that does not have their phone number on the web site.
Rule #9 Drinking: Don't get drunk on a date; keep the drinking to the minimum. The last thing a Russian woman wants to meet is another alcoholic or drunk. Alcoholism is a huge problem in Russia and the Ukraine. Most women in Russian and the Ukraine by the times they are 21 have had enough of drunks, If they see you getting drunk they will just thing you are another alcoholic.
Rule #10 Never going: This is the number one mistake men do; is not go. Less than 1% of the men that write women will ever get on a plane and go. Women get very tired of writing men that never come. A good friend of mine corresponded with a women who received over 500 letter. Out of the hundreds of men that wrote her, he was the only one that ever came over. It did not matter how handsome, rich or charming the other men were, they never took the final step and closed the deal. They now have been married for over 9 years. Corresponding is ok to start getting to know someone. But it is unless if you don't meet. Procrastination can cost you, while you delay someone else may travel and close the deal with the women that could have been your sole mate. Stop making excuses and go.
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