Silva
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posted on 06-11-2004 at 09:54 |
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What do you think?
i like my b/f and am kinda seeing him! He said its jus fun for him and wants to have sex. My mate Joe who's also his mate says if i have sex with him then it may lead to something more. I'm a virgin and people say that 1st time is a big thing and some say its not so important. I've been dumped in the past for being one so i don't want to do now. Thats why I'm turning to all you guys out there for help?
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hopeyou
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posted on 06-11-2004 at 10:01 |
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don't lose your virginity just for the fun of it, make sure the guy is worth it and that you're ready, it doesn't sound like you're ready and this guy doesn't sound worthy of it
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Silva
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posted on 06-11-2004 at 10:14 |
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i think i am ready, i want to do it, i know it will hurt a bit and that's really what i'm worried about. But im just wondering if it will lead anywhere. i think it will and i want to get it over and done with asap i wud like to start having a sexual relationship with people.
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skubby23
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posted on 06-11-2004 at 10:18 |
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"lead anywhere?" what do you mean by that? If he says he's just in it for the fun of it then he's not the right guy, sex needs to be taken seriously.
Good luck.
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auntpolly
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posted on 06-11-2004 at 10:37 |
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You make it sound like sex is a chore when you say "get it over and done with" Your first time should be special, and with someone you love. It shouldn't be a task. Don't do something you'll regret later. And if you have sex with this guy just so you can say you're not a virgin anymore, you will regret it later.
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, and only you can know that you're still a virgin - its no one else's business and as long as you don't tell anyone, they won't know if you're a virgin or not.
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Greta_Keith
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posted on 06-11-2004 at 10:44 |
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Don't do ....
Maybe I'm just an old softy, but I personally believe that sex should be reserved as the ultimate expression of love. Since it doesn't sound like you love this guy, I wouldn't say that you should do anything of that nature with him. Naturally it's up to you, but keep in mind that virginity is only something you have once; after you lose it, you cannot get it back. I mean, I'm a virgin myself, and yes, it might be nice to become sexually active, but I'm saving myself for someone who I think truly deserves it and could appreciate that what I'm doing is for them and them alone. I just think it makes things more special that way. *shrugs* In the end it is completely your choice, but in my humble opinion I think you should wait. At least think long and hard before you go and do something you may regret.
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fraudpin
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posted on 06-11-2004 at 10:51 |
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very young
I don't think you should have sex at a young age. You won't be with this guy forever so why lose your virginity to him.
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The Virgin Nurse
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Registered: 06-04-2005 Location: Somewhere in Louisiana
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posted on 06-05-2005 at 02:07 |
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True, fraudpin
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